Friday, October 13, 2006


I have been thinking a lot about what I have done with my life, where I have been and what it all means. I'm not sure where all of this reflection is coming from, but I think that it is worth spending some very serious thought and prayer in sorting it all out. My friend Lauri recently mentioned something to me that really stopped me in my tracks. She just celebrated her 33rd birthday. She said that this is her Jesus year. (Curiously enough, the Bible doesn't mention a precise age of Jesus. Luke's gospel says that Jesus was baptized at the age of 30, and various historical documents indicate that He was crucified about 3 years later, giving the traditional age of 33). WOW! Just think of all that Jesus did on this earth in that short amount of time. That sort of puts a whole new meaning on WWJD. It's more of LWJD (look what Jesus did) and then realize just how much time we waste on unimportant things.

Does it seem like more of our society is turning to christianity?

This may only be my false hope, but one of the things that I am starting to notice is the ever increasing talk of our faith from unexpected places. I like to watch Oprah and she has always talked about her "spirituality", but I have begun to notice that she is changing that to talking about God. Never in my lifetime, have I noticed our president so openly talking about prayer. Then there is the hollywood turn to christian movies (the passion) and huge successes of books like the purpose driven life. Though I am thrilled to see more and more people turning their attentions to christianity, it does worry me that like most things in our society it is a trend.

In the 1950’s Science replaced God. There was an ensuing spiritual hunger, which sought expression in the counterculture of the 1960’s and 1970’s through drugs, Eastern religions, and sexual promiscuity. This led to materialism and the cult of the self of the 1980’s and 1990’s. None of these substitutes can replace man’s deep spiritual hunger. The absence of God can only be replaced with the presence of God.

I hope that if I'm right, this is one trend we should fight to keep around.

The things that I admire about

Stacy Hixon

very accepting of everyone, great listener, a devoted mom and wife, a believer that everyone has a right to their feelings, funny, a great writer, compassionate, forgiving, humble, always willing to make postive changes, and most importantly a christian striving to be more like Jesus.

Just FYI

Paraskevidekatriaphobia, the fear of Friday the 13th


Doctors urge more playtime for children

Here's some soothing medicine for stressed-out parents and overscheduled kids: The American Academy of Pediatrics says what children really need for healthy development is more good, old-fashioned playtime.
Many parents load their children's schedules with get-smart videos, enrichment activities and lots of classes in a drive to help them excel. The efforts often begin as early as infancy.

Spontaneous, free play — whether it's chasing butterflies, playing with "true toys" like blocks and dolls, or just romping on the floor with mom and dad — often is sacrificed in the shuffle, a new academy report says.
Jennifer Gervasio has a 5-year-old son and 3-year-old daughter involved in preschool three mornings weekly, plus T-ball and ballet for each one day a week. That's a light schedule compared to her kids' friends, and Gervasio said her son in particular has trouble finding buddies who are free to come over and just play.

"There's just such a huge variety of things you can do for your kids if you have the resources, you almost feel why not," said Gervasio, of Wilmette, Ill. "There is a part of me that would worry if I don't sign my son up for some of these things, will he not be on par with the other kids."

For now, she says, she resists the pressure, instead allowing her kids plenty of time for looking for bugs, romping at the beach and other play activities they love to do.

"I truly believe that they're better off when they can just do their own thing," Gervasio said.
Numerous studies have shown that unstructured play has many benefits. It can help children become creative, discover their own passions, develop problem-solving skills, relate to others and adjust to school settings, the academy report says.

"Perhaps above all, play is a simple joy that is a cherished part of childhood," says the report, prepared by two academy committees for release Monday at the group's annual meeting in Atlanta.

A lack of spontaneous playtime can create stress for children and parents alike. If it occurs because young children are plopped in front of get-smart videos or older children lose school recess time, it can increase risks for obesity. It may even contribute to depression for many children, the report says.

Social pressures and marketing pitches about creating "super children" contribute to a lack of playtime for many families. But so does living in low-income, violence-prone neighborhoods where safe places to play are scarce, the report says.

It says enrichment tools and organized activities can be beneficial but should not be viewed as a requirement for creating successful children. Above all, they must be balanced with plenty of free play time, the report says.

"In the current environment where so many parents feel pressure to be super parents, I believe this message is an important one," said Dr. Kenneth Ginsburg, the report's lead author and a pediatrician at The Children's Hospital of Philadelphia.

Noted pediatrician and author Dr. T. Berry Brazelton praised the academy's report.
"I hope it will have some effect," Brazelton said.

Children overscheduled with structured activities "are missing the chance they have to dream, to fantasize, to make their own world work the way they want it. That to me is a very important part of childhood," Brazelton said.


I am blessed to have this time in my life for reflection. I am blessed to have the ability to just be still and know that you are GOD!

So that's all from this day in the life of mommysmart!

1 comment:

The Hixon's said...

Thank you, Monica. You know I sat and cried when I read your blog. You are such a source of encouragement for me. Love you, my sister in Christ! - Stacy H.